Matawan Family Law Blog

Unique challenges one may face during a divorce late in life

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in divorce on Wednesday, October 9, 2019.

Making the decision to end a marriage can be stressful and daunting under any circumstance. However, there are certain scenarios in which the issues individuals in New Jersey may encounter during a divorce could be unique to their respective age group. Studies indicate that those who are going through a divorce late in life may face a variety of potential health concerns and addressing these issues could be vital to protecting their well-being.

Studies indicate that one of the most common issues of going through a gray divorce pertains to transitioning into life alone. Studies suggest that isolation can be hard on one's health and similar issues could open a person up to health concerns such as depression and anxiety. Studies also indicate that the stress of a divorce could also increase the risks a person will encounter health concerns such as high blood pressure or sleep disorders, both of which could have a devastating impact on one's life.

3 common financial mistakes to avoid during a divorce

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in divorce on Monday, October 7, 2019.

Your financial situation is likely one of the last things on your mind when you are going through a divorce. Properly dealing with stress and other emotions commonly associated with divorce is important, but you also need to be mindful of your expenses. It is very easy to make financial miscues during a divorce that could put you in a difficult position for a long time.

Divorce is a challenging enough situation as it is. You do not want to make it any harder on yourself by putting yourself behind the eight ball financially. Fortunately, this is something that is well within your control. Being aware of financial pitfalls and practicing smart spending habits can help keep you afloat as you navigate your way through a divorce.

3 advantages of divorce arbitration

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in mediation and arbitration on Friday, October 4, 2019.

It is important to explore all of your options when you are going through a divorce. Depending on your specific circumstances, you may believe that litigation is your only choice. Fortunately, there are alternative options available that allow you the same formality and finality without some of the drawbacks.

Arbitration is one option that couples may use if they reach a stalemate in the divorce negotiation process. Instead of handling the procedure inside of a courtroom, couples that choose arbitration attend a special hearing. An arbitrator oversees this hearing instead of a judge, but the decisions are binding such is the case with a traditional divorce procedure. This allows couples special advantages that would otherwise not be available in the courtroom.

3 reasons why divorce mediation may be right for you

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in mediation and arbitration on Friday, October 4, 2019.

The divorce process is widely known to be both difficult and stressful. A toxic relationship, for example, could make every conversation you have a challenging one. Going through a divorce can also be difficult for people who separate on positive terms. There are a number of different circumstances that could make your specific situation harder.

Divorce could be financially strenuous. You may have a difference in opinion with your spouse on how to properly sort out some of your assets. Most importantly, you may have a disagreement regarding how to move forward with your children. Arguing about each of these factors in court could be a long, drawn-out process. There is potentially a better way, however, in the form of divorce mediation.

Negotiation skills can help in New Jersey divorce mediation

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in mediation and arbitration on Wednesday, October 2, 2019.

In New Jersey and all other states, married couples who wish to divorce do not necessarily have to go to court. Divorce mediation is an available option for those who can agree to avoid confrontation and resolve key issues in a peaceful, cooperative atmosphere. Negotiation sessions are scheduled so spouses can work out their differences and come up with a settlement plan that meets the needs and ultimate goals of both sides.

An experienced attorney can act as mediator to help discussions stay focused and make sure spouses stick to their agreement to avoid dispute. Negotiation is the central factor from which a successfully mediated settlement stems. Spouses must be willing to listen to each other, speak in a non-confrontational manner and avoid topics of contention, such as personal issues having to do with their past marital problems.

Tips to avoid a high-conflict divorce

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in high-conflict divorce on Monday, September 30, 2019.

Deciding to get a divorce is a life-altering decision. It can be extremely stressful and difficult to cope with the many changes going on in your life. The paperwork and tough conversations commonly associated with divorce make the situation challenging enough. You do not want to make things more problematic by allowing the situation to escalate to a high-conflict divorce.

The good news is that there are plenty of ways to avoid a messy situation. Even if emotions are running high, it is possible to navigate a divorce without allowing the matter to get out of hand. This is something that you can control, and it all starts with managing your own behavior.

Limiting conflict when co-parenting the kids after a divorce

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in divorce on Thursday, September 26, 2019.

Upon deciding to dissolve a marriage, there may be a multitude of parents in New Jersey and across the nation who wish to share parenting responsibilities with the other party. However, reaching an amicable arrangement on how to achieve this goal might not always be a simple task, especially during a stressful process such as divorce. Those who wish to safeguard the well-being of their kids could benefit from seeking advice on ways to limit the level of conflict involved with co-parenting the children.

When it comes to reducing co-parenting conflict, experts indicate that taking on the mindset that the needs of the children come first could prove essential. Placing the interests of the kids at the forefront of the discussion could help parents find common ground when making decisions about their future. Experts also indicate that since holding on to the past may do little to help the situation, finding ways to let go of previous issues could also be imperative.

Opening a new chapter in life after a divorce

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in divorce on Wednesday, September 18, 2019.

When facing the end of a marriage, many individuals in New Jersey and elsewhere may have concerns about how the outcome of the situation could affect their lives. While going through a divorce can be a stressful experience, there may be certain measures individuals can take that may help protect their physical and mental well-being. Those who are facing a similar circumstance could benefit from seeking advice on ways to help transition into opening a new chapter in life after divorce.

In some cases, those who are going through a similar life change may worry that they will be left all alone. As such, experts indicate that instead of sitting at home alone, a person may find it helpful to consider going out in public and creating new experiences. This could help one create new memories and develop new friendships that could make the transition significantly less challenging.

Divorce: Asking certain questions before choosing a path

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider posted in divorce on Wednesday, September 11, 2019.

Going through the end of a marriage can be a stressful experience and the outcome of the situation could have a substantial impact on the lives of everyone involved. In some cases, individuals in New Jersey might feel uncertain if divorce is the healthiest path available or they might have concerns over how the process will affect their futures. Studies indicate that asking certain questions about the situation could help a person better prepare to make an informed decision about the future.

Studies indicate that one of the first questions to ask could pertain to determining the motivating factors behind the decision to part ways. There are a variety of scenarios that can create a rift in a relationship and identifying any and all issues could be a vital component to deciding what comes next. In some cases, experts suggest that looking back at the good times in the relationship and asking if there is any way to get back to that point before making a decision could also be helpful.

Why are there more divorces this time of year?

On behalf of Robin Jill Schneider on Saturday, August 31, 2019.

The choice to end a marriage is never easy. Typically, this decision comes after months or even years of consideration. Interestingly, there are certain times of the year when people may be more prone to move forward with divorce than others. One of those times is during the month of August and beginning of September, around the time that school starts back.

If you are considering divorce or you have already moved ahead with initiating that process, it may help you to take a closer look at why people make that decision. This could give you better insight into why you are making that choice, what things may be driving your decision-making process and how you can protect your own interests during divorce.

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